Why do we deal with the marriage thing as a bunch of dammed specifications?
The job, the financial capabilities, the family, the gifts …..
As if the groom is an ATM machine and the bride is a gift to be exchanged in return!!!!
If you love someone you will only want him/ her regardless of the silly details
If this person is ever somewhere in the world you would rather exchange your years in return of being just with him / her
If this person is ever somewhere any song you would ever hear; his/ her image will be in your mind regardless where you are or with whom you are
If this person is ever somewhere any story you would read; he / she would be the hero of the story
If this person is ever somewhere; he / she will be the only person to wait for
If this person is not even there; then nothing could take his/ her place and you would rather continue life dreaming of the dream of someone instead of dealing with silly stupid financial details
If this person is ever somewhere you will know him / her as soon as you start saying hi. He /she will just penetrate your Soule and you will feel the magic and listen to music immediately, you will know him / her immediately because he / she is not your other half, he is you but in a different shape!!!
So dear silly specification would you just go to hell?